你有一些关键问题对于这个人来说，您很认真，但是您不舒服问他们。
那很正常。
Asking some questions too soon might send him running for the hills.
或者至少您担心它会。
You don’t want to suddenly lob a bunch ofserious stuff立刻或在错误的时间对他。
Some of your questions are awkward or sensitive, and the timing has to be just so if you want him to feel safe answering them.
但good questionsfor guys are part of getting to know him and determining whether the relationship can continue based onmutual trustand honesty.
What Questions Should a Girl Ask a Guy?
您需要了解最好的问你男人的问题, so you don’t miss any dealbreakers later in the relationship. If you’re too afraid to ask now, you may be sorely disappointed down the road when your heart is deeply invested.
但是你想对敏感和touchy questionsthe right way. Luckily, most guys prefer upfront honesty and being direct when asking questions.
You don’t need to beat around the bush. Putting it out there is the only way to find out what you’re longing to know.
What are some uncomfortable questions to ask a guy?
Girls ask guys questions about topics such as:
- Paying for dates
- 性别
- Love
- 婚姻
- Children
- Health concerns
- 异性的朋友
Whatever topic is on your mind, we have you covered with some common questions you’ll want to consider.
27 Questions Girls Are Afraid to Ask Guys
There are many awkward questions to ask a guy, but some are more common than others.
看看这个27个问题的列表，这些问题不舒服，问一个男人。
记下您想问自己的男人的想法，然后开始考虑何时，何时何地问他。
1.您希望我们如何支付日期？
The most common question women wonder about is who should pay for dates. Whether he wants to go dutch, alternate, or pay for all of the dates, agreeing on how to pay for them allows you to keep having fun without worrying about money.
2. Is it true that sex is always on guys’ minds?
It’s a common belief that guys always thinkabout sex。While it’s probably not on your guy’s mindall时间，这是问他是否经常考虑的好方法。
他的回答可能导致关于色情使用，性排他性和与性的情感亲密关系的对话。
3. How long does it take for you to commit?
大多数女性想知道自己的伴侣认真对待关系或成为独家夫妇需要多长时间。有些人从一开始就承诺，而另一些人则需要一定的时间。
It’s valuable to know when your guy is likely to move forward with the relationship – and if his timing matches yours.
4.是什么打开和关闭？
Knowing the right buttons to push for initiating sex is essential. Maybe your guy enjoys a specific type of foreplay or sexy lingerie. Many guys don’t need much, but it doesn’t hurt to ask.
讨论也很有帮助turn-offs对于你们两个。有些男人喜欢看到爱人穿着运动裤和他的T恤四处走动。对于其他人，不是很多。
5. Do you believe in love?
You might assume that if a guy is dating, he believes in love and falling in love. It turns out that many guys do, but it’s more about showing love in a masculine way than receiving it.
Or it may be about receiving it but not showing it.
Some men are jaded after a series of不良关系and believe love is a fairy tale. Do his beliefs jibe with yours?
6. Are you looking for marriage?
问这个问题似乎还为时过早，但是如果婚姻是您的目标，那么一些日期就不会太早找出答案。您的时间和精力与他一样有价值，因此请找出他是否也是婚姻的。
Some guys want a serious,长期的关系but without the paperwork, ceremony, or forever commitment that comes with marriage.
7. How do you feel about friends of the opposite sex?
这个问题涉及一个主题可以激发jealousy issues and is another essential subject to discuss.
If one partner has close friends of the opposite sex, can the other accept that without insecurity andjealousy? You may also want to discuss whether either of you remainsfriends with an ex以及您对此的感觉。
8.你有一天要孩子吗？
One of the major problems between couples is that they can’t agree on having children. Sometimes, one ends up (perhaps unhappily) agreeing to the other’s wish only to feel resentful.
Some people are neutral and don’t start thinking seriously about it until they’re in a committed relationship. But if you know you do or don’t want kids, you must talk about it early in dating since it’s a dealbreaker for many people.
9. What’s your sex drive?
Many guys (but not all) have a high sex drive, especially compared with most women. You’ll want to know how many times a week your guy prefers to have sex and if his sex drive meshes with yours. Is there an “ideal” number of times or even a “minimum” number?
10.女人最喜欢的功能是什么？
Many guys focus on specific physical features of women, such as eyes, lips, or parts of the body. They may focus less on inner qualities such as confidence or a幽默感。
如果他太喜欢你的外观和身体，您会感到客观吗？还是当他的美丽和渴望时，这会让您感到很崇拜？
11.您喜欢或多或少的化妆吗？
Some guys don’t care much either way about makeup. What matters more to them is that their woman dress or style herself withhim心里。
不过，最好找出您的家伙是否对“太多”或“不够”的妆容有意见。
12. Do women’s periods make you uncomfortable?
Menstruation (and related questions about it) can be a messy and uncomfortable subject for some men. You may wonder if it’s okay for you to ask your guy to buy menstrual products for you once you’re in a committed relationship.
You may also want to discuss sex while you’re on your period and how both of you feel about it.
13. What is essential for sexual compatibility?
对某人的身体吸引力并不一定能很好地转化为卧室。挑选你的人的大脑，问他使这种吸引力的变化延伸到做爱。
Discuss what你们俩都需要或渴望做爱。当然，随着时间的流逝，您将了解更多有关性偏好的信息。
14.什么是您的完美约会？
You’ve likely already gotten a first date out of the way and are looking forward to more. The first date is about getting to know each other and discovering if there’s chemistry.
但aperfect日期是关于理想的romantic time together。Your guy’s thoughts on it can reveal a lot about how he’d like to best spend time with you.
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15.一个女孩是处女对你重要吗？
While it’s no longer a common issue among couples in today’s sexually active culture, some guys are still looking for virgins.
Others don’t care so much about virginity but still don’t feel comfortable with a woman who has had many sexual partners. His opinions may feel judgy and hypocritical to you, especially if he’s been with plenty of women.
Find this out early before you get too emotionally involved.
16. Do you like giving or receiving gifts?
有些人只在假期期间喜欢送礼物，而另一些人随时喜欢。如果您很喜欢捐赠或收到礼物，那么您不想发现您的家伙不是一个热情的人。
17. Do you celebrate holidays?
Celebrating holidays is a mixed bag. While many guys celebrate them, others have a conflux of emotions during certain holidays. Learn if you agree on whether or not celebrating holidays is fun and the traditions you both want to honor.
18. Is it okay for girls to pursue guys?
传统上，男人追求女性并开始约会。但是，今天，许多妇女主动询问自己喜欢的男人。
A woman may initiate the first sexual encounter as well. You’ll want to know if your guy is okay with you ever making the moves or calling him for a date.
19.在电话上打电话是不礼貌的吗？
Modern technology is so popular that it’s common to see people glued to their phones, even while on dates. That doesn’t mean your guy would没关系with you being on yours, though.
讨论是否应该在沉默或手机如果just occasional checking won’t disturb your dates.
20. Is it okay to message you when you’re out?
Some guys will have “guys night” with their friends and may not want to be contacted while they’re busy.
You shouldn’t feel offended because spending time apart is a good thing, and you’ll show him that you’re considerate of his time with friends.
21. Do you have a clothing preference for girls you date?
大多数人对时尚不太了解，无论是品牌名称还是特定风格。但是，男人确实对自己认为看起来非常有吸引力或对女孩的看法有意见，例如休闲牛仔裤，高跟鞋，裙子或性感的连衣裙。
22. What do you consider promiscuous behavior?
这个问题不是关于您睡过多少人，而是关于滥交。露出衣服，有任何或多太多男朋友，化妆过多或在酒吧或俱乐部里喝醉的判断是与您的男人建立认真的关系之间的区别。
23.你能原谅作弊吗？
作弊是关系中的主要问题。这不仅是因为行为本身，还因为被骗的伴侣的反应。对于某些人来说，这是完全不可原谅的。
有些人对what “cheating” isthan simply having sex with someone else. So asking your guy what considers cheating to be is essential.
24. How important is it to share common interests?
There’s more to a relationship than simply feeling attraction orsexual chemistry。You need to have things in common. It doesn’t mean you have to enjoy football, video games, or cars, but allowing him to talk about his passions shows him you care.
25. Is taking too long to get ready a pet peeve for you?
Some girls are notorious for taking a long time to get ready. It can become an issue when most guys just throw on their clothes and are stuck waiting around for their girlfriend.
Asking this question shows that you’re willing to find a solution or compromise.
26. What do you do if you’re not interested in a girl?
Some guys are shy and won’t make the first move, or they’ll message you every few days. But how do you tell if he’s lost interest?
长时间的幽灵或无视您是巧妙地让您知道他不再感兴趣的方法。那是他的作案手法吗？如果是这样，您还可以吗？
27.您整天都喜欢定期联系吗？
There’s nothing wrong with messaging your guy, but everyone has a preference on how much contact they want.
太多的人会感到令人窒息，压倒性，并分散您的家伙的注意力，从工作和其他事情上。通常有一个快乐的平衡，你们两个可以每天进行对话。
如您所见，您并不孤单独特的问题for your guy. The chances are that your guy has been asked some of them before by other girls or by friends. Most importantly, he’s likely to have thought about them without ever being asked.