Wonder What A Guy Thinks After You Sleep With Him? We Have The Answers (17 Of Them)

你睡在一起了。

Maybe it was the first night you met, or perhaps it was your wedding night.

Whichever the case, you’re now wondering: How do men feel after sex?

If you’re attempting to read the tea leaves regarding how he acts the morning after,understand that myriad answers satisfy the question.

That said, commonalities abound.

So let’s dive into Average John’s brain, swim around, and examine 17 things he could possibly (probably) be thinking after intimacy.

It’ll be like snorkeling around themalepsyche.

What Do Guys Think After You Sleep With Them? 17 Insights Into His Thoughts

如果您是女性，sex with a guy for the first time, you may think something like,“他和我睡觉后仍然感兴趣吗？”或“哇。

这并不像我希望的那样令人满意。”

So what’s percolating in the gray matter of the guy lying next to you?

Believe it or not, many of the same thoughts dripping out of your mind are similar to theirs.

1.“我足够好吗？”

男人可以非常不安全的性交后,什么he thinks after you sleep with himoften flows in that direction.

机智，“我想知道我是否足够吗？”在连接后，伙计们想到的东西的顶部。

Sure, you’ll occasionally land in the bed of anuber-masculine narcissistconvinced he’s god’s gift to sex.

But the truth is that most guys are pretty insecure — especially if they have feelings for the person with whom they’re being intimate.

如果您想将他扔掉骨头，请强调它的表现。

如果您觉得自己神秘，请扣留。

2.“我花了太久 /太短吗？”

时间安排对于性交是一件大事 - 如此之多，因此它拥有自己的城市传奇收藏。（您是否听说过关于Sting的音乐家，与他的妻子举行了七个小时的密宗做爱？）

After doing the deed, many guys immediately wonder about the time. Did they last for a long time? Was it too long? Or did he orgasm way too quickly? Should he be embarrassed?

因此，如果他看起来很遥远，他可能只是在思考数学。

3. “Did You Climax?”

越来越多的人关心他们的伴侣是否达到高潮。（我们说“越来越多”，因为曾经有一次人们认为女性不能高潮。可悲的是，这不像您想像的那样。）

He may ask you directly, “Hey, did you come?” It may sound crass, but sex-brain isn’t always the most eloquent.

4. “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”

这是早期关系亲密关系之后的古老问题，在平均情况下，不成文规则适用。

1. If it’s a one-night stand, don’t expect a sleepover. It may happen, but don’t expect it.
2. 如果您只约会一个月左右，离开也可能是合适的。
3. If you have been together for months, and your partner always leaves, you may want to put on your detective glasses and find out if Mr. Right is someone else’s husband.

Another tip: Don’t always interpret someone leaving as a terrible sign. Sometimes, life gets in the way, and staying is impossible.

5.“我真的很喜欢这个人”

你约会了一段时间了吗？混合中的情绪不仅仅是身体上的愉悦感吗？

If so, post-coital thoughts could veer toward theromantic. Or, their feelings for you may swell. Both are super if you’re also into them. But things can and will get awkward if one of you feels this way and the other doesn’t.

6. “Sweet! I Just Got Laid”

So, as much as some of them like to talk, very few get sex regularly, and when they enjoy a carnal evening, they may bask in some self-congratulatory glory.

Look, they’re proud of themselves! (In some cases, it’s completely endearing. In other cases, it makes you clap your hand to your forehead and self-admonish, “What did I just DO!?”)

But yeah, some guys are not big thinkers after sex, and the most they can muster is a pat on their own back.

7.“我应该将[插入名称]保留在我的战利品呼叫旋转中。”

大多数人都发生。在他们年轻时的某个时候，他们经历了A，我们可以说“实验性”阶段。对于某些人来说，这是很多沉重的抚摸。对于其他人……好吧……有很多性爱。

If you’re someone who enjoys intercourse as much as possible, you may have open relationships or a stable of what’s commonly called “booty boys,” aka, “the men you contact when you’re in the mood for a booty call.” Well, guys keep those lists too.

So, if it’s more of a casual thing, he may be thinking:我应该得到她的电话吗？几周后，我们可能会再次玩得开心。她似乎在玩。

8.“哦，不！我忘记了[她/他/他们的名字！”

Did you meet at the bar, get blinding drunk and go home with someone you met a couple of hours ago — while heavily intoxicated?

(Hey, it happens.)

In these situations, you may forget names. It’s never a good look, and when you’re the one whose name can’t be recalled, it can be downright humiliating. If it happens, brush it off and keep going.

But remember how it feels the next time you get wasted and contemplate heading to bed with Mr. For Tonight Only.

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9. “I Wonder if [He/She/They] Thought My Unit Was Big?”

Is it crass to talk — or even think about — penis size? To some folks, probably. But ultimately, it’s just an organ, and sometimes, the bigger it is, the better the sex.

因此，是的，与您的其他恋人相比，在COITUS之后，许多人将立即思考其相对规模。

If you want to make a guy feel great after sex, compliment his performance and his…ahem…tool. If you want to keep the mystery vibe intact, say nothing.

10. “I Could Really Use a Shower.”

Sex can be a sweaty, fluid-filled experience. And yes, sometimes, the only thing one wants to do when it’s done is take a long, hot shower.

It’s not the mostromanticthing, but if you have been together for a while, showering together is always fun.

So what’s the big lesson here? Before you have intimate guests, ensure your bathroom is clean — including the shower!

11.“我想知道[他/她/他们]会告诉他们的朋友什么？”

人说话。这不是最道德的香吻ss and tell — but many people do it. So, of course, your paramour may wonder what you’ll share with your friends about him.

哪个提出了一个问题：您应该告诉朋友关于您的恋人的信息？

Having a best friend with whom you share absolutely everything is perfectly acceptable. But don’t go blabbing about your intimacy to everyone. And you certainly don’t need to post anything about it on social media — even if you get into a fight.

12. “I’m So Tired!”

Sex can be very tiring! Plus, men and women exert different chemicals and hormones during the event. And for guys, it wipes them out. Ladies may be sleepy afterward, too, but it’s more prominent an issue for gents.

实际上，晚期疲惫是如此普遍，英国人对此有一个特殊的词：or缩。

哦，可以随意让某人在性爱后立即入睡（除非他们喝醉了。）

13.“没关系。我如何不刻薄？”

People say that sex is just like pizza and that there’s no such thing as a “bad slice.”

But people who’ve tried pizza abroad know that the saying is a lie — because pizza in some corners of this world is downright awful. And yes, the same goes for sex.

There is such a thing as terrible intercourse. There are times when two people just do not fit together.

If you land in such a situation, there’s a chance your misfit partner is also thinking the same thing. But these cases aren’t as bad as they may seem. You both want to escape ASAP, which makes it much easier to move on and forget it ever happened.

14.“我应该在另一个约会时问[她/他/他们]吗？”

If it went well, and you’re both feeling each other, he may be wondering whether to ask you out for another date.

Take this as a great sign. If he weren’t into you, he’d be out the door faster than you could say, “one-night stand.” But if he’s anxious to lock you down after doing the deed, whatever this is could be going somewhere.

如果您希望是这种情况，请放弃一个微妙的暗示，即您愿意再次见面。如果他不回报，请不要推动问题。海上还有很多其他鱼。

Don’t waste time pining for people who just aren’t into you. You’ll kick yourself for all the energy you wasted when you’re older.

15.“我想知道[他/她/他们]是否想再次去？”

Though rare, in your coital travels, you may come across a man who has energy to spare. Guys like this can usually go like the energizer bunny — and many are darn good at their craft.

If you find yourself horizontal with one of thesesexualstallions, there’s a good chance he’s thinking he may be wondering if you want to go again for another round.

16. “Is This Person Relationship Material?”

They could be sizing you up in a calculated manner because, for many people, deciding who to date is a complicated calculation. So if that type of guy finds himself in your abode, he’ll probably be checking out what you have, your style, and any clues about your background.

是交易吗？有时。但是对于有物质关注的人来说，这些事情很重要。

17. Crickets…

然后有一个人真的什么都没想。这并不意味着他很昏暗或怪异或怪异。这只是意味着他是禅宗after sex，谁能指责呢？

Sure, it can be frustrating not knowing what’s on his mind only to learn that it could be absolutely nothing. But give him credit for being in the moment, and let the next steps reveal themselves.

FAQs About How Men Feel After Sex

关于男人在性爱后的感受还是挂钩的疑问？这是完全正常的 - 我们有答案。

How do you get a guy’s attention after you sleep with him?

和一个男人一起睡觉，无论哪种方式都会引起他的注意。如果他更传统，并且您早点和他一起睡觉，他可能会以不同的眼光看着您，只有在他有身体冲动时才打电话给您。

If the guy in question is more relaxed about sex and wants to pursue something, you’ll likely hear from him within 48 hours after intercourse. If you try to contact him and don’t hear back, don’t bug him — just move on.

Do guys care if you sleep with them right away?

It depends on the guy. Men usually fall into one of three categories:

1. Traditionalists: If a woman sleeps with them early on, they’ll never contact her again.
2. 进步: More progressive men aren’t as hung-up on sexual taboos as others, and sleeping with them early on isn’t a big deal.
3. 休闲性别者：第三组是休闲性工作人员。这些人中的许多人都想要一个传统的配偶，但在打结之前，他们会与很多人愚弄。如果您立即与这个家伙一起睡觉，他可能会让您待在赃物电话中，但仅此而已。

Why do guys distance themselves after intimacy?

Guys may distance themselves after intimacy for many reasons. Some are harmless, but others can be telling. They may pull away if they feel you have slept with them too soon. The same goes if they just aren’t into the sex you had – or that into you.

Why do guys change after you sleep with them?

Some guys are dogs. So once they get what they want, they no longer need to try. Do yourself a favor and dump this kind of guy fast. He’ll just be a headache down the road, and you deserve someone better!

As long as you’re safe and it’s consensual, sex can be a lot of fun. Figure out what works for you, and go with that. Then extend that sexual-choice freedom to everyone.