Ever heard a passive-aggressive comment that had yousplitting your sideslaughing — and then got you thinking?
And yet, it doesn’t often (or ever) occur to you to look for passive-aggressive phrases for personal motivation.
But maybe if you had your ownpersonal collectionof mug-worthy quotes from (or about)passive-aggressive people, that would change.
Because, most of the time,snark and sarcasmtotally beat getting punched in the face.
What are Passive-Aggressive Comments?
We’re not saying passive-aggressive comments can’t be annoying — even maddening. Part of you screams, “If you have a problem with me, just SAY IT!”
Raise your hand if you’ve heard comments like any of these:
- It’s nothing. I know you’d do the same for me. Oh, wait…
- Bless your little heart! You do try, don’t you?
- I love how you can just wear whatever and not care how it looks.
- You’re so brave! So few people could pull off that look. And… look atyou!
- Wow, interesting… Maybe if you tell me what you were going for…?
- Oh… Well, now, I think maybe I asked way too much of you.Mybad.
- That’ssogreat — especially for you!
- Isorespect and value your opinion. But we’re not doing that.
- If I had the time to explain this to you, Itotallywould.
We’re not mind-readers. And a lot of passive aggression comes with the thinly-veiled assumption that “you should know better.” Except maybe you don’t. Or maybe you’re just tired of the drama and struggling to care.
Either way, the quotes further down should sound familiar. And we hope they bring more smiles than cringes (unlike the phrases above).
31 Passive-Aggressive Quotes
Enjoy this collection of 31 quotes about passive-aggressive people. Make a note of those that sound most familiar to you — either because of something you said or because of someone in your life.
1. “It’s funny how people post on social media about letting go while having trouble getting rid of the person they want to read the message.” ― by Unknown
2. “When introverts are in conflict with each other…it may require a map in order to follow all the silences, nonverbal cues and passive-aggressive behaviors! ― Adam S. McHugh
3. “Anger’s like a battery that leaks acid right out of me. And it starts from the heart until it reaches my outer me.” ― Criss Jami
4. “Fine! He is being passive aggressive with me, and it’s gonna backfire; I’m gonna be active friendly.” — Natalya Vorobyova
6. “Not doing anything is doing something and choosing to look away is a passive but no less mortal sin.” ― Bill Maher
7. “People will push you to your breaking point, but when you snap they act as if you’re the one in the wrong.” ― Unknown
8. “Passive aggressive people consistently makes you feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster.” ― Izey Victoria Odiase
10. “Passive Aggression – Being covertly spiteful with the intent of inflicting mental pain.” ― Ashta-Deb
11. “Passive aggressive behavior is counterproductive. Communication is key to a healthy personal and work relationship.” ― Izey Victoria Odiase
12. “Never judge someone until you’ve walked a mile in his shoes. That way, when you do judge him, you’re a mile away and you have his shoes.” ― Emo Philips
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14. “Passive pleasure is no pleasure at all.” ― Arthur Adamov
16. “Most people are passive aggressive in this world. I have the idea that the human being is born with a kind of reservoir of aggression. We are inherently somewhat aggressive creatures and we either channel that in direct ways or we channel it in indirect ways and become passive aggressive.” ― Robert Greene
17. “I’m not passive aggressive. If something bothers me, I think about it, then I act on it. I express it.” ― Anton Yelchin
18. “Passive aggressive behavior creates distance in a relationship because issues and problems of an increasingly bothering nature are not discussed.” ― Preston Ni
19. “You guys are so caught up in your polished images and your passive aggressive comments that no one ever comes right out and says anything.” ― Richelle Mead
20. “That’s passive-aggressively meant for a specific person but I don’t have the balls to actually tell them or anyone else how I feel to their face.” ― Albert Einstein
21. “Passive aggressive behavior is often seen in the people who have not learned how to express their feelings, needs and desires to others.” ― David Walter Rousch
22. “Passive aggressive personality unable to express aggression directly, these people express hostility indirectly.” ― David Walter Rousch
23.“被动攻击行为似乎是一个年代tep ahead of his or her supervisor, the youth can cause tremendous headaches for authority figures.” ― David Walter Rousch
24.“消极对抗的人从不responsible for what they do. They blame people for making them do the things they do. They tend to go along with doing things that they aren’t interested in doing and then complain about it behind that person’s back.” ― by Henry Cloud
25. “Lingering, bottled-up anger never reveals the ‘true colors’ of an individual. It, on the contrary, becomes all mixed up, rotten, confused, forms a highly combustible, chemical compound then explodes as something foreign, something very different than one’s natural self.” ― Criss Jami
26. “Passive aggressive persons are known for verbally complying with a request, but behaviorally delaying its completion.” ― Psychology Today
27. “Dealing with passive aggressive people will make you feel like your on a dangerous and emotional ride.” ― by Izey Victoria Odiase
28. “A lot of the things that involve power on the highest levels sometimes involve the darker side of human psychology. People can be very passive aggressive or they can be aggressive and they can conceal their intentions. There’s this worldthat existsthat nobody writes about or describes it’s like a dirty little secret or taboo.” ―Robert Greene
30.“一旦你与assertiven重大成功ess, you learn that it’s a much healthier path than being a doormat to the insensitive folks. You gain respect for yourself, have more time for your priorities, and develop authentic and healthier relationships.” ― Doreen Virtue
31. “It’s better to have people admit their true feelings than have a friend who puts a knife in your back.” ― by Unknown
Final thoughts
What have you learned about passive-aggressive behavior?
Now that you’ve looked through these quotes, which ones stood out for you and why?
This isn’t a “hate the sin, not the sinner” situation. You can definitely call someone out for passive-aggressive comments that are worse than outright insults.
But sometimes a passive-aggressive response is just what you need to get your point across without resorting to violence.
Use your power wisely.
